Plan Ahead
Losing a loved one and planning your memorial/funeral can be emotionally and mentally challenging due to the many steps required to be successful.
While planning a memorial/funeral service there are several things to keep in mind and there are resources available during this process.
Green Burial
Minimum environmental impact and conserves resources. An eco-friendly burial. The body is placed in a coffin that is biodegradable or shrouded and interred without a concrete vault. This is a natural burial of a dead person in the soil that does not compromise the decomposition of the body but allows it to be naturally recycled.
Writing a Eulogy
A statement that praises someone highly or commemorates someone who has died.
Mausoleum
The decomposition process occurs above ground in a final resting place above the ground. It contains one or many crypts or burial spaces for the whole body and cremation ashes. A variety of factors will influence the costs.
Burial Insurance Policy
Usually refers to whole life insurance policy. Death benefits provide money for funeral and burial costs for themselves and/or family members.
End-of-Life Planning
Consists of four components:
- Advance Directives or living wills
- Appointing durable power of attorney for health care
- Documents for distribution of assets
- Specifying preferences for type and place of care
Funeral Cost
Basic services fee for the funeral director and staff, charges for other services and merchandise, and cash advances.
Burial & Cremation
Burial
Final disposition whereby a dead body is placed into the ground.
Cremation
Final disposition whereby the body is placed in an appropriate casket or acceptable rigid container. The container is placed into a furnace or retort.
Planning Resources
- Legal Zoom Estate Planning
- Life Insurance Policy of your choice
- National Hospice: Nhpco.org (click on information for Patients & Family-Caregivers)
- Five Wishes: Fivewishes.org
- Veterans Burial Forms: www.va.gov/burials-memorials
Living Wills
A statement detailing a person’s desires for their medical treatment when they are not able to express informed consent, especially an advance directive.
Available through Legal Zoom website
Advance Directives
A living will, medical power of attorney, and personal directive are legal documents whereby a person specifies actions to be taken for their health if they are not able to make decisions for themselves because of illness or incapacity.
Life Insurance Policy
- Term and Whole: Available through insurance companies
- Burial Alternatives: Available through insurance companies
- Military Burial: VA website
- Planning Your Own Funeral Arrangements: Make your wish at fivewishes.org
More Useful Links
- Family Checklist
- Family Needs Checklist
- FEMA Documents
- Financial Hardship Sample Letter
(Please see the Service Tab – first block regarding financial assistance. Information will be gathered and justified. Also, there is a limit due to the number of people we assist. Thank you.) - FEMA COVID Website
- griefandbereavementrc.org